Ep 124: Fireworks (F-word Monologue)

Happy Anniversary to Antonio and I! 5 years today he took me out for dinner where I thought he was too nice and said I wasn't interested. Thank god for @YasGuru who smacked me upside the head and told me I had to meet him again.

I share our story of meeting, the whirlwind romance and our special wedding song in the end. And if you think it's like a fairytale...it was, with plenty of twists and turns, and a girl who realized she was worthy all along of love.

What You’ll Learn in this Episode

How many times to meet someone before making a decision on continuing forward in the relationship
What intention setting did to impact Shazia's wedding
How Shazia & Antonio met

Nuggets of Wisdom from Shazia

If you find yourself not asking, if you find yourself not praying for the things that you want or not asking for the things that you want, then I invite you to thing about why that is. Because often times if we don't ask, there's a worthiness conversation happening underneath. And the worthiness conversation really looks like, am I worthy of having someone? The words might be different, am I good enough? Can I have someone? Maybe I'm not mean to have someone?
When you make a decision and you're clear about things, things will just move in a way to support that. The universe conspires to make that happen.
And so even though I didn't know, even though it wasn't clear, I trusted. I surrendered. I left it with God. I left it with the divine to say, "Here is what I want and I know that you can make it happen. And that's what happened.